Safety

gonatter is for friendly conversation, not emergencies or mental-health support. If you're in crisis or in danger, please contact a professional or your local emergency services.

If you or someone else is in crisis or danger, please see our support resources for ways to get urgent help.

Respectful conversation

A quick note: gonatter is for friendly, respectful conversation. Anything sexual, abusive, or aimed at someone under 18 isn't allowed, and either person can end a call at any time.

Reporting

If something doesn't feel right, you can report it from any conversation or after a call. Our team reviews every report. Anything sexual, abusive, or directed at someone under 18 is strictly prohibited and will be acted on.

Verified listeners

Every listener completes identity verification before they can take calls. This is private and never shown to callers.

For adults only

gonatter is for people aged 18 and over.